I have been wanting to sit and write this for the last month and somehow I always get sidetracked...so here goes...
Michael and I met on June 23rd 2006 the night of my 30th birthday party....I decided before going out to jump online and check out who checked me out via my online profile (yes, we met online)..the moment I saw him I knew I was suppose to talk to him. He looked at my profile and decided I was not worthy enough to leave a message

so of course i had to know why he didnt leave me a message. Ah ha, I will grab him in the instant message room and corner him in cyber world and find out why didnt he see fit to leave me a message. I mean I had the best profile ever....man magnet.....loaded with sports and football talk...what man wouldnt love this? lol after ignoring my request to chat, i got super amped...i mean how dare you reject me twice....lol finally as i continued watching the clock and realizing my party was getting closer and closer i hit him one more time....i guess I wore him down

but all i really wanted to know was ummm 'excuse me, whats up with not leaving me a message, im beautiful!!!" and his response was 'i know and thats why i didnt leave you a message, beautiful girls want beautiful guys, so i kept going'
now he had me intrigued....cause i thought he was gorgeous...after an hour of IM'ing, he worked up the courage to ask for my phone number. I tripped over the numbers and within moments I heard 'ring ring'...we talked until the next morning...I MISSED MY BIRTHDAY PARTY!!!!!!!!!!!. i could not wait until my best friend woke up the next morning...i had to tell her I met my husband.....i knew from the word HELLO.......I called her at some ungodly hour in the morning (she was still umm salty with me for not showing up at my own party)I said this is the man I am going to marry.......8 months later to the day he dropped to his knee and out came the box.....now my wheels were spinning because I lived in Chicago and he lived in a small town in North Carolina....but once my mind stopped racing towards the details i remembered to simply say yes.....3 months later we were married in a small ceremony with my family present...this however was not the wedding of my dreams....
my dream wedding had tons of red roses, a saxaphone player, the sounds of the ocean and an island far far away....so we picked St. thomas....3 years after our first I do, we did again.....and a dream deferred became a reality....enjoy!