Poll: Is there anything about yourself

[Sircoya]

that you wanted to change before the wedding?

[Kitten]

I have a few things that I would like to change before getting married:

1. I want my six-pack back....:bawling: I'm pretty close to getting that though!

2. I wanted to be more responsible with money....I'm terrible with finances and impulse shopping.

There are other things, but I will post them as I think of them...

[Mrs.Mac2Be]

I would have to say the physical side and maybe the mental. I would like more patience and I need to get out more & spend time alone and connect with myself so I can better connect with others.

[September7bride]

I would have liked to be 20 pounds lighter than what I was on my wedding day.

[Raine]

Put me down for 15 pounds to go!

[tifferoo]

The only thing I would like to change is my fear to hear the word no. If I think somebody is going to tell me know, I would rather not ask at all.

[kenyanicole]

I would like to flatten my stomach, connect better with myself so that I can connect better with FH, and STOP STRESSING over things I can't control.:nervous:

[Crystal]

I promised my FI that I would be more responsible with $$. I am HORRIBLE!!!

I need to try to balance my checkbook - I haven't kept a checkbook in about 5 years! Things add up with a debit card.

I am an impluse shopper as well, but not for stuff that you would think. I mainly spend on the children or lil things for the house. I usually spend a lot on cleaning supplies and laundry needs because I won't buy off brands and he hates that.

[Sircoya]

Crystal, we got the same issues!!!!!!!!!!!
hehehehe

[Crystal]

Sircoya -

I have really been trying! LOL

It's so hard!!!

[luvmesomehim]

I'd have to say nothing. My husband loves me for me, just the way I am. Now back in the day I could have given you a million answers. My attitude sucked! But I worked on that and I have a great attitude. I have a positive outlook on life and I think God made me just the way he intended me to be so I'm fine with the end result.

Trina

[jpandlavon]

I LOVE THIS POST!!!! Simply for the fact that people assume that you are a "finished" product when you marry and that is NOT the case! God can send mates to bring you closer to Him, deal with hidden issues and to spark or respark that light inside of you that He wants to use!

Hmmm, what would I like to change...

I'd like to have been debt free

I'd like to have been in better physical shape

More and more and more and more faith, love, and patience

and maybe own some land

but now John and I get to do ALLLL of that TOGETHER


God is so good!

[Eydiebug]

I wanted to lose some weight before my wedding. As usual, that didn't happen. I'm still trying to lose weight, and would like to lose at least 30 lbs before our 2nd anniversary.